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2008

The Bronx is up and the Battery's down

By Jean Cherni, H. Pearce Company's Senior Living Services Program

Some of my formative years were spent in New York City. My first "on-my-own apartment" — although it was, as a matter of economics, shared with two other young working women — was in New York, and subsequently, when one of my roommates introduced me to my future husband, Sheridan Square in the Village became my first home as a new bride.

I was, therefore, surprised upon coming to Connecticut that when I would mention in conversation that I was "going to the city"; natives here thought I meant that I was going into New Haven.

Now, I thoroughly enjoy all that New Haven has to offer and since on some days I may make the trip from Branford to New Haven several times, it would hardly, in my mind, bear mentioning.

For me, wherever I live, a trip to "the city" can only mean one place: New York, N.Y., and having taken on the Long Island and Cross Bronx expressways, I was not at all daunted by the "Q" Bridge. Many of my Shoreline friends make detailed and strategic plans to avoid it at all costs.

I do readily admit, however, that when I need my twice-monthly New York "fix," I don’t drive but much prefer the relative ease of the train.

Recently, I have had the pleasure of introducing New York City to my niece, Kimberly, who is studying at Columbia. In starting to acquaint Kim with New York, I am discovering and rediscovering some of New York’s treasures myself.

One of our first visits was to the United Nations, where our very comprehensive tour was given by Marc, a delightful, tall, young guide from Germany. Although our particular tour was in English, tours (which leave about every half-hour) are also available in all five of the official UN languages.

I had previously made a reservation for lunch in the delegates’ dining room ... a worthwhile extravagance because the food is delicious and the views of New York and the East River, breathtaking. To make a reservation for the dining room, call (212) 963-7625.

I had forgotten — that despite the fact that the UN acts primarily in an advisory capacity only — how much this unique and important organization has managed to accomplish. The inspiring biblical quote, engraved on the wall of the UN Plaza, always gives me a lump in my throat when I read it: "They shall beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks.

Nation shall not lift up sword against nation.

Neither shall they learn war anymore.

Another day, we enjoyed several exhibits at the Metropolitan Museum of Art where, as a member, I was able to take Kim to the elegant trustees’ dining room for lunch. However, there is a new and reasonable cafeteria and a more expensive but charming cafe which overlooks part of Central Park.

Of course, from now until Christmas, New York City is truly a fantasy wonderland and a world-class bazaar of unique treasures. I can hardly wait to show Kim and my Chinese Yale student, Jing, the giant tree at Rockefeller Center with the statue of Prometheus still holding aloft his torch over the skaters below. Or Fifth Avenue, a glittering river of light in the evening with the Tiffany store looking like a giant gift box with its big blue ribbon encircling the entire building. And good news for children of all ages, F.A.O. Schwarz is back in a newly renovated store.

The venerable Museum of Modern Art, known as MOMA, has re-opened and features an exciting new addition, but there are long lines just now. However, there are a wealth of small museums, some like Asia House (Park and 70th), the Dahesh Museum (580 Madison), the American Craft Museum and the American Folk Art Museum (both almost next to each other at 40 and 45 W. 53rd) and all with excellent gift shops.

While I’m always happy to return to dear, old Connecticut after all the excitement and stimulation of New York, I find that while I may return exhausted… it is a good feeling because I am tired from living ... never, tired of living.

You might want to plan a trip soon. People come from all over the world to experience New York. Certainly, we who are only a short distance away, should remember to take advantage of all the city can offer.

Jean Cherni is founder of Senior Living Solutions, a retirement advisory service.  Contact her at jeancherni@sbcglobal.net or 15 The Ponds, Branford 06405.

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