"Senior Moments" Articles
*as featured in The New Haven Register, Living Section

Articles

2008

Yes, We're all busy, but reading adds joy to life

By Jean Cherni, H. Pearce Company's Senior Living Services Program

Almost as alarming (but mostly unnoticed) as the threat of terrorism are the results of a recent survey by the National Endowment for the Arts that shows that reading in America, among all economic, ethnic and age groups, has fallen dramatically.

Additionally, the survey points to the fact that people who read for pleasure are much more likely to visit museums, attend musical performances and do volunteer and charity work … in other words, the reading group tends to lead active, involved lives while nonreaders, over half the population, is withdrawn and isolated. These are particularly significant facts for the senior population since isolation and depression can lead to premature mental problems as well as alcoholism, frequently a "hidden" problem among the lonely and unseen elderly.

During my childhood, books were a welcome and treasured gift. "Read me a story" was a bedtime plea heard long after I was able to read myself but still wished for the shared enjoyment a good book provides.

One of my favorite family photographs is of my mother, seated on a summer porch with our little dog, Toby, asleep in her lap while she reads "Peter Pan" to an enchanted daughter.

That same summer porch became, in subsequent years, the special place where Victor Hugo’s "Les Miserables" and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle’s "Adventures of Sherlock Holmes" engaged me so completely that I was admonished to go out and play in the fresh air instead of "having your nose stuck in a book."

The before-bedtime ritual of graham crackers and milk, along with a few chapters of whatever I was currently reading, persists to this day (although tea and biscotti have replaced the crackers and milk).

At the time of our four-year stay in Japan, when I was home-schooling our son, I struggled mightily as an untrained teacher to instruct an often-unwilling Michael in his lessons. Slowly, he gained confidence, and when he completed his first reader, I said, "Michael, I’m so proud of you." His reply, which I can recall clearly after 40 years, was to pat my hand and respond, "And I’m proud of you, too, mother." Of course, now there are computers, cell phones and television that compete with our time. In the state of Washington, the commuter ferry running from the suburbs to Seattle is considering installing laptop terminals, thereby effectively lengthening commuters’ working days and destroying yet another quiet time to read or just enjoy the scenery.

In the face of all the competition from an entertainment media, parents and grandparents have a responsibility to see to it that time is set aside specifically for reading, and that children be taken to our many excellent libraries and encouraged to join book groups and reading discussions.

We can all join organizations such as the Friends groups of our local libraries whose fund-raising efforts supplement library budgets. We can also become trained literacy volunteers to help the many newly arrived Americans struggling to learn English.

What is the point of a high literacy rate in America if no one is taking the time to read? Most important, what is the future of a democratic process if all our information comes in pre-digested, condensed sound bites? The very bedrock of a democracy is an informed, engaged citizenry. To open a book is to open your mind to new ideas and new experiences.

Dear readers, I would welcome hearing from you about what books have most influenced you or about your favorite recent "reads."

Jean Cherni is founder of Senior Living Solutions, a retirement advisory service.  Contact her at jeancherni@sbcglobal.net or 15 The Ponds, Branford 06405.

H. Pearce Company REALTORS® is a full-service real estate company with more than 100 agents and branch offices in greater New Haven and the Shoreline. Corporate and & Commercial offices are located in North Haven, where the company was founded in 1958. All listings can be found in color on the web at: www.hpearce.com.




Corporate Office  •  393 State Street, North Haven, CT 06473  •  203.281.3400
Toll Free 888.473.2723  • Fax 203.288.9645 •   Email Us:
relo@hpearce.com


©2006 - 2010 Pearce Plus, llc., All rights reserved