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A trip of a lifetime

By Jean Cherni, H. Pearce Company's Senior Living Services Program

Articles

2008

I have just returned from a vacation that felt like a tale right out of the Arabian nights. It seems impossible that only 15 days ago, my travel buddy Barbara Borchardt of Woodcliff Lake, N.J., and I landed in Turkey after a 10½-hour flight from Kennedy. We immediately boarded another plane for the hour’s flight to Kusadasi, a small town on the turquoise Aegean Sea.

The next day, we joined our tour of seven other adventuresome souls, two Canadian couples, a woman from Mariposa, Calif., and doctors David and Shelley Kaminsky of Woodbridge.

We all hopped aboard our comfortably compact van and with our excellent guide, Mustapha Mirkelam, we were off to see the ancient city of Ephesus and the Temple of Artemis, one of the Seven Wonders of the Ancient World, which dates from the 7th century B.C.

We also visited the Library of Celsus and the last House of the Virgin Mary, where it is believed she came with St. John between 37-48 A.D. and subsequently lived and died here. The ruins were large and impressive, and in some places, in amazing condition. It is warm and I found some of the climbing and maneuvering, rough-going.

Luckily, the Canadians and Mustapha lent encouragement and helping hands. Mustapha took us to lunch at an interesting local restaurant ... something we were able to do throughout the trip because of the limited size of our group. We were served wonderful, thin bread served on a foot-long plank of wood and an appetizer of chopped celery, onions, tomatoes and dill with yogurt followed by endless courses of rice, lamb, beef and chicken. Small sweet cakes and apple tea ended the meal.

We stopped at a leather factory and were treated to a fashion show of beautiful coats and jackets for men and women, but since some of the coats cost almost $3,000, there were no takers in our group.

Friday, a long drive brought us to Pamukkale with its amazing hills of pure white calcium. It has been a mineral water spa since ancient times. The waters are muddy and very hot; so despite the couples enthusiastically scrubbing each other, I opted for the clear, cold waters of the hotel pool.

On the move again the following day. Sometimes we drove on winding, mountainous roads affording spectacular views and at other times the scenery was flat and almost boring like parts of our Midwest. Antalya, our destination, was colonized by the Greeks, integrated into the Roman province of Asia, fortified against the Arabs, became a rallying point for the Crusaders and later annexed to the Ottoman Empire. In 1918, the Italians occupied Antalya but their troops were withdrawn in 1921.

Many towns have been named and renamed several times and show the influence of the varieties of the many different people who have lived there and left their mark. Turkey, because of its location at the center of the Silk Route between Europe and Asia, is a treasure trove with the remnants of 13 successive civilizations, spanning 10,000 years.
The hotel in Antalya is a modern reflection of this history. It is a psychedelic creation with each wall of our room in a different vibrant color. The dining room has columns of graffiti, velvet swings, lime green couches, a library and a pool table.

We were all exhausted from the drive to Cappadocia, which took more than 9 hours. I could hardly wait to shower despite the tubs which are very narrow and so deep you need a ladder to climb in. On the way, an interesting stop was at the Museum/Monastary of the whirling dervish, a unique religious sect whose members whirl for hours on end, in a type of trance-like state.

A full day was spent exploring the incredible “moonscape” of Cappadocia with its starkly dramatic terrain, which seems unreal and is the result of former volcanic activities. A bad earthquake in 1950 revealed some caves that had formerly remained hidden. These and other caves were used for months by entire Turkish towns to hide from invading armies.
They go back to the time of the Hittites, and the largest caves could hold 45,000 people. Some of the caves are on four levels, with ceilings so low, you are almost crawling through them.

Of course, we also visited a world-renowned carpet factory where all the carpets are still handmade. We saw many carpets, each one more beautiful (and expensive) than the next, but I resisted.

On the way to our next stop, Ankara, the capital of Turkey, I did succumb to a colorful plate featuring red tulips (the Turkish national flower) at a huge pottery factory where I even got to meet the artist who made the plate. We visited Gordion, the city of King Midas where Alexander the Great cut the Gordion knot and then conquered Asia.

After lunch at a small restaurant, where we were served under the trees, I watched many women in the town square making small dolls in traditional Turkish dress, for sale. They worked quickly despite the heat and their own dress of long enveloping coats and head scarves worn low down on their foreheads.

There were very few customers that day, so even though I really didn’t want a doll, I purchased one for 4 lira, or about $4. Back in the van, we drove through rolling countryside, past an old Ottoman village and the picture-perfect town of Eskisehir. But despite our usual precautions, Barbara and I were hit with tummy troubles, especially difficult in a country where many of the facilities are “squattes” or in-the-ground toilets. We spent the next few days watching our fellow travelers enjoying bountiful buffet breakfasts while we consumed only tea, toast and rice.

Jean Cherni is founder of Senior Living Solutions, a retirement advisory service.  Contact her at jeancherni@sbcglobal.net or 15 The Ponds, Branford 06405.

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