"Senior Moments" Articles
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Let's turn it down a notch or two, people

By Jean Cherni, H. Pearce Company's Senior Living Services Program

Articles

2008

The other day, stopping for gas, I was standing holding the gas hose to my car, watching the gas meter dispensing with my money at a furious pace, but otherwise in a good mood and minding my own business.

Suddenly, my ears were assaulted by loud music, which after a minute or two was interrupted by an even louder commercial announcement. There was no way of avoiding the onslaught to my senses, captive as I was, tethered to my own car by a short hose and forced to listen.

I was so annoyed that after the tank had filled, I marched into the gas station (which is the one I regularly use) and complained. I felt better even though I doubted much would come of it.

A few days later, I happened upon a news item about a recent rebellion in Britain which was declared "No Music Day," with a surprisingly large percent of the populace, including radio stations, stores and even music lovers, forswearing all tunes for 24 hours. The man who came up with the idea, a musician and artist, Bill Drummond, was tired of hearing songs turned into TV commercials.

To which I say, "Bravo, Mr. Drummond."

Just imagine going to Starbucks (where they not only play music, they advertise that you can download their songs onto your iPod) and sitting in delightful silence while you enjoy your coffee, or shopping in your supermarket without hearing music constantly interrupted by a shrill voice announcing the latest specials.

What bliss it would be to go to a mall, fast-food takeout, bank or even the local Jiffy Lube and not hear some perfectly awful guitar strumming, or some discordant group singing some stupid, endlessly repetitive lyrics like, "Put me in a zoo baby, cause you're drivin' me wild."

Of course, I can't imagine a world without music and we have a wonderful music system in our home, but we have a choice of many kinds of music, from reggae to ragtime and soundscapes to symphonies. We choose not only what to listen to, but when. Whenever music, or for that matter, TV programs or other's cellphone conversations intrude into our private space, we lose a basic freedom.

We are also receiving what, studies show, is a definite negative impact of noise pollution. Certainly in urban areas, we already receive enough noise that is unavoidable: traffic, aircraft and construction. Continuous exposure to noise induces stress responses. Reactions can include rage, sadness, panic attack and indecision. Noise has been linked to heart disease, high blood pressure, increased aggression and decreased productivity.

Less noise is more quiet. Quiet is not, however, silence. Actually, quiet allows us to hear more sounds. Through quiet, we understand one another more clearly and restore our bodies and souls. Quiet fosters good conversation, neighborliness and thoughtful reflection. Children learn faster and people work better. Quiet is good for us.

According to the Coalition Against Noise Pollution, "A comfortable environment is one in which there is freedom from annoyance and distraction, so that working or pleasure can be carried out unhindered physically or mentally." The next time you are bothered by a car's music system, your neighbor's TV or barking dog, loud before-movie commercials, or any unnecessary noises, speak up ... softly, but firmly. We all need to be more vocal about our right to enjoy peace and quiet.

Jean Cherni is founder of Senior Living Solutions, a retirement advisory service.  Contact her at jeancherni@sbcglobal.net or 15 The Ponds, Branford 06405.

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